Ms. M called the program, expressing her confusion when there were only two weeks left until the wedding, but discovered that her future husband had a wife and a three-year-old daughter. Along with that, she also learned about the "noise" related to the childcare between her future husband and ex-wife. According to Ms. M, this truth was revealed by friends after a wedding anniversary party with her best friends.
Ms. M shared: "Over the past two years, I have never mentioned this. When I confronted him, he just kept quiet and justified that he did not say it because he was afraid of losing me, afraid that my family would object, and that his ex-wife was also demanding child support because he had not given him child support for many years.
Close friends who knew him well told him that what his ex-wife revealed was 80% true. No one in my family knows about this, but a group of close friends advised me that the postponement is still in time, rather than a mistake of a lifetime. Now, I really don't know what to do and where to start."
Singer My Le emphasized: The important thing is that when coming together, everything must be clear and transparent. The past is the past, we need to respect it, but when starting a new relationship, honesty is very important. It is impossible to hide a serious matter like being married and having children, only to find out when it is close to the wedding day of the wife later that it is a deliberate khuda and causing crisis".
If she put herself in the case of Ms. M's sister, singer My Le would prevent her and decide to cancel the marriage, because this was unacceptable. Singer My Le offers a solution: I think you should be straightforward and need to reconsider this relationship. If it were me, I would decide to stop everything.
Because, when a person with such a past deliberately keeps it a secret, it proves that he does not value his family. In addition, his failure to provide money for his children is also evidence of his irresponsibility. I think that when you marry such a man, you are betting your future, your family and children in danger. Therefore, if it were my sister, I would resolutely prevent and advise immediate wedding cancellation.
In the second story, Mr. K sent a heartfelt letter and expressed his confusion because after 6 months of marriage, he discovered that his wife had been married. Mr. K shared: "My wife and I have been married for more than 6 months. My wife kept delaying the marriage registration until my mother urged me, then I agreed. Thanks to the need for a singles' certificate to register my marriage, I learned that I was married.
I explained that my ex -husband was not good, so I unilaterally divorced, and she hid it because I was afraid my mother did not accept it because my mother was very fastidious. I decided to ignore the past but somehow, my ex -husband knew my mother's phone number. He texted, called everything to my mother and threatened to send sensitive images of my wife and her ex -husband to my mother. ”
Listening to the story, singer My Le said that she could not only blame her husband, but also worry about him because of the "shock" of her ex-husband, even her ex-husband even intended to send sensitive clips and photos.
The singer emphasized: "If I were a mother-in-law in this situation, I would be very fierce, not easy to ignore. I am a mother, I am still shocked like that, let alone my son will be much more shocked. I am the type of mother-in-law who is fierce but not gentle".
Singer My Le believes: "A marriage will last when it is built on honesty and mutual trust". As for MC Phuong Uyen, although not married, she sees love not only as a love attachment but also as a companionship and protection against the storms of life.
