At the program "You Want to Date", the audience witnessed the pairing between Phan Van The (26 years old, working as an IT technician in Ho Chi Minh City) and Dang Thi Thoa (26 years old, an accountant working in Ho Chi Minh City). The two created a good impression thanks to their sincere conversation and clear orientation in love affairs.
In the introduction, Van The said that he is a gentle person, focused on work, and has had three relationships, including one that lasted more than two years. He shared that the breakup was mainly due to pressure during the startup period. Meanwhile, Ms. Dang Thi Thoa has almost no official relationship, because she spends time studying and doing accounting work.
The difference in emotional experience does not create distance but helps both have more perspectives. Ms. Thoa appreciates the stability and calm personality of the other person, while Van The is impressed with the straightforwardness and progressiveness of the female friend. Both agree on the criteria for choosing a partner is personality suitability, knowing how to care and having long-term orientation.
In the direct meeting part, Van The seemed somewhat confused when standing near the female friend, but still tried to show sincerity through preparing gifts. Ms. Dang Thi Thoa's side actively created a comfortable atmosphere, helping the conversation to take place naturally.
The issue of geographical distance was also clearly discussed by both sides. Van The and Ms. Thoa both work in Ho Chi Minh City but are quite far apart. For convenience, Ms. Thoa proposed meeting at a location suitable for both of their travel, this plan received consensus from the groom's family.
Not stopping at getting to know each other, the couple also shared their views on marriage. The two agreed that they need time to get to know each other before going further, and it is expected that in 2 to 3 years, if suitable, they will consider marriage. This is considered a direction suitable for the current conditions of both.
Besides, the story of future plans was also mentioned. Van The said that he has land in his hometown, while Ms. Dang Thi Thoa prioritizes a convenient living environment for work. Although not yet making a specific decision, both expressed openness in exchanging ideas to find common ground.
In the deciding part, Van The and Ms. Dang Thi Thoa together pressed the dating button with the support of relatives and audiences. This result reflects the consensus on life views as well as the desire to build a serious relationship.
