Luan and Ngan met through social networks. Luan's first message to Ngan was only two words "Hi baby", a way of addressing her made Ngan suspicious and it took nearly half a month to dare to answer. As a cautious person, Ngan admitted that she was afraid of being scammed by online relationships. Only when she saw Luan patient, polite and not urging, did she gradually open up to talk.
It was almost a year later that the two met directly. The first meeting at the coffee shop left many mixed emotions. Luan said that he was quite surprised to see Ngan sitting in a wheelchair, something he had never known before. However, instead of being confused or avoiding, Luan chose to behave naturally, caring from small details. A simple action like changing a cup of coffee when seeing Ngan have abdominal pain left a strong impression on the young girl.
Kim Ngan gave birth prematurely, her limbs were weak and she had to travel by electric vehicle. However, she soon developed a habit of self-reliance. From 6th grade, Ngan went to school on her own, traveling nearly 2km per day, crossing bridges, and through busy roads. She completed her high school program and graduated from college in system management, showing unremitting efforts in mastering her life.
The relationship between Luan and Ngan lasted for many years before marriage. Luan admitted that it took nearly three years to dare to confess his love, because he wanted to have economic and spiritual preparation to marry Ngan. For him, marriage is not just about feelings but also about responsibilities. Ngan also did not easily believe in love. It was almost two years later that she truly felt affection and believed that Luan did not come because of pity.
When Luan proposed marriage, both families had concerns. Ngan's mother was worried that her daughter would suffer many disadvantages, and Luan's parents asked whether he would be able to take care of his wife for life. Faced with those worries, Luan only made a simple commitment: to try his best to have a stable and happy life for his wife.
The couple's wedding took place in the blessings of relatives, and at the same time spread strongly on social networks. Besides the congratulations, there were also many negative comments, doubting Luan's motives. Before the opposing public opinion, Ngan said that publicizing her life means accepting many different opinions. For her, the comments do not change the value of current happiness.
More than a month after getting married, the two said they are still in the stage of getting acquainted with married life. Small unharmonious habits are inevitable, but the important thing is companionship and mutual respect.
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