At the program "Perfect Mix", the couple said that they have been married for 9 years. They have two daughters. According to his wife, Mr. Thang is a very hot-tempered person and finds it difficult to control his personal emotions. He admitted that in the family, he was often upset and often flared up with anger, making his wife - Minh Thu - sad.
Ms. Minh Thu shared with People's Artist Hong Van: "We once argued to the point of separation". Ms. Minh Thu said that the times Mr. Quang Thang could not control himself was due to pressure from outside, making it difficult to share with his family or wife, so he would get angry. Mr. Thang also shared that partly because his children were not good, he sometimes could not control himself.
Many times Mr. Thang has been hot-tempered with his wife, but Ms. Thu, thanks to her calmness, has somewhat avoided major conflicts. However, Mr. Quang Thang's hot temperament is getting out of control. The peak was when she asked him to clean the cup rack, he broke it. At times, he even shouted "there is a problem - I" to her.
Although her husband's words or addresses were not correct, Ms. Thu still called him "husband" or "Mr., so that the story would not go too far. She also did not stay angry with him for too long so that the problem did not persist. A few days later, she started to explain to him. When he realized his mistake, he would hug his wife or take the initiative to make amends.
Mr. Quang Thang shared with Dr. Dao psychologist Le Hoa An: "I understand the harmful effects of hot flashes and have also changed somewhat. I often get angry, but after that, I calm down and make peace with my wife or she will make peace with me.
When asked by People's Artist Hong Van how she felt when her husband was hot-tempered, Ms. Minh Thu shared: "Because I have a lot of affection for my husband, I feel sorry for him and not upset with him like that."
People's Artist Hong Van noticed a positive change in Mr. Thang: " Participating in the perfect mix program with my wife means that he has started to change, is willing to open his heart and wants to atone for Thu. I think Thu should not hide her feelings to him, because the time the couple have been together has been long enough - 9 years. Maybe the first time I said, he would not listen, but if I said for a long time, Thu's husband would understand his wife's suffering."
Psychologist Dao Le Hoa An commented: Since he was a child, Mr. Thang has lived for a long time with his hot-tempered father. In addition, because of his mischief, Mr. Thang was fined the most by his father in the family. Those images have eaten deep into the subconscious and influenced current personality. However, hot-tempered people are often outspoken and do not remember angry things for long.
Luckily, the wife's words were easily appeased, so the couple did not stay angry with each other long. But in my opinion, Ms. Thu is just holding back, so the tears appearing in the program - not at home - are because she wants to keep the family's atmosphere warm".
Psychologist Dao Le Hoa An offers solutions for families with hot-tempered husbands or wives: Couples should have in-depth conversations, talk about personal feelings of themselves and the other person should listen more. Both adjusted and became more harmonious in their marriage story. This will help develop the relationship. We should not please the other person and feel resentful, we have limits and no one is forced to suffer anyone.
