Because of an unwanted pregnancy right after graduating from high school, Ms. K and Mr. Q decided to get married. Up to now, the couple has been together for more than 20 years, and have 4 children (2 boys, 2 girls).
Since her first child was about 2 years old, Ms. K discovered that her husband was having an affair, having affairs with many women at the same time.However, because she was busy taking care of the children and taking care of the family, Ms. K accepted to "turn a blind eye".
With a gentle personality, Ms. K forgave her husband's mistakes many times and often chose to stay silent and ignore them.However, the incident went beyond the limit of tolerance when the mistress continuously provoked and hurt her.
The incident happened in 2019, Ms. K's husband had an affair with an online seller who had a husband and children but left her husband and did not raise the children.
Ms. K was upset because the "third party" repeatedly provoked her to scold, be jealous and incite Mr. Q to leave his wife.
Ms. K intended to divorce but was "shaken" when Mr. Q spoke up.She said: "I insisted on getting a divorce, but my husband told me not to, saying that I could not start over.I am a woman, I can accept and forgive, but I am still very resentful because my husband does not treat me well." Director Le Hoang could not help but wonder when Ms. K admitted that she had known about her husband's womanizing for more than ten years but still decided to stay and give birth to 4 children.
Ms. K explained: “I can’t afford to raise four children.
Now that we’re divorced, whoever lives with their father will suffer a lot,” Ms. K said.Regarding Ms. K’s forgiveness and tolerance, the director frankly said: “You’re so bad that your husband has had mistresses many times, but you still ignore them and only get angry when the mistress causes trouble.
The reason you endure a husband who cheats continuously like that, if you step out into society, no one will accept.I heard it, I see that your husband is not terribly rich but you endure it so fiercely".
Through the story of Ms. K, director Le Hoang told viewers: "From this story, those who watch the program should learn from their own experience.In married life, forgiveness can sometimes cause disaster and regret later.Forgiveness can easily be taken advantage of by others, we can only forgive to a certain extent, but unlimited forgiveness is death".
