Ms. Quyen said that she was a high school classmate of Mr. Nguyen's younger sister, often calling him "Mr. Hai" because of their closeness. At that time, she lived in Khanh Hoa, Mr. Nguyen was married and in Ho Chi Minh City, so the two only considered each other as brothers.
Nearly 10 years later, when both of their marriages had broken up, Ms. Quyen went to Ho Chi Minh City to start a business. Coincidentally seeing her photo online, Mr. Nguyen proactively contacted and invited her to go out. At that time, he had been divorced for nearly 6 years and lived alone.
empathy and conversations help the feelings gradually blossom, they decide to get married. When MC Dinh Toan asked if she was afraid that her husband already had three children, Ms. Quyen frankly said: "I don't consider it a barrier. Before, the people I met did not respect me. But when Mr. Nguyen arrived, I felt the sincere affection".
Sharing about their common life, she compared the early days to "two fires" - she is a small fire, he is a big fire, conflicts easily flare up. In addition to similar circumstances, they also share a love of traveling and making money. However, Mr. Nguyen's jealousy caused the two to argue many times, and Ms. Quyen even asked for a divorce.
Mr. Nguyen admitted that he was hot-tempered and sometimes uncontrolled before, but he has changed since living with her.
Ms. Quyen's family was initially worried when they learned that Mr. Nguyen had three children with his father-in-law, afraid that she would not be the "last person".
But psychologist Nguyen Ngoc Quynh Dao assessed that Mr. Nguyen has fulfilled his responsibility as a father and cared for his children well.
Ms. Quyen affirmed that she had never seen her husband showing signs of "goosebumps". My husband always invites me to go with him wherever he goes, while I dont need to, she said. Mr. Nguyen explained: "My wife is good at both housework and outdoor work. When I have more children together, I want to be stable, not play around like before.
When asked "trust your husband or yourself", Ms. Quyen replied that it was both, because her husband made her believe in sincere feelings and changes for love, even though he was sometimes jealous of his ex-wife.
Dr. Quynh Dao commented that "fequency compensation" is an important factor. Mr. Nguyen - Ms. Quyen are not only in harmony in their circumstances but also share common interests and goals. When participating in activities together, they nurtured and connected their feelings. She recommended that both of them need to create an environment for the children to stick together, forming a warm "big family", where all members share and love together.
