In the modern dating world, where relationships are fleeting, dating apps are flooded and mixed emotional signals are becoming popular. Many people are easily exhausted because they " give too much".
But according to relationship counselor Jillian Turecki (India) shared on hindustantimes, the solution is not to love less, but to love the right person, the person who knows how to give affection naturally and generously like a friend.
Love must have a response
Ms. Turecki said that many people who " give" often feel like they are carrying all the emotions in a relationship. But in reality, there are times when they are the ones who accept when they are tired or scared, even if they do not realize it.
Love is never an absolute balance. But over time, the energy of love needs to pass.
" since goodwill must come from both sides," consult consult consult consultant Turecki emphasized.
Finding a generous person, not perfect
For sensitive but easily empatious people or those who love deeply and give a lot, Ms. Turecki encourages them not to change.
You dont need to love less so you wont get hurt. Understand that you deserve the love you give, said Mr. Turecki.
Instead of looking for a perfect person, find someone who is generous because that is part of their personality, not because of good obligations to score points in the relationship.
Love is not an addition and subtraction
Finally, Ms. Jillian emphasized: Genuine love is not a transaction. Choose someone who understands that love is a relationship, not an agreement".
Turecki concluded with a reminder for those who have been exhausted by love: If you are always a giving person, find someone else to love.
