You want to get married
Marriage requires long-term effort and commitment, so get married when you are ready.
Don't consider getting married just because your lover or parents want you to get married. External circumstances may make you feel like getting married, but this is your own decision.
Understand the opponent
You love their true selves, including their flaws, instead of hoping they will change after marriage.
Resolving healthy conflicts
When you two can argue without offending each other and always aim for a common solution - that is when you are most ready to move towards a sustainable marriage.
Absolute trust
You always give the other person trust, there is no room for suspicion or control of each other's phones and personal accounts. That is proof of a relationship that has reached maturity and safety.
Financial transparency and independence
Money is the leading cause of divorce. A couple is willing to marry when they have the ability to be economically independent, while being completely transparent about debts, income and having a common plan for spending management as well as accumulation for the future.
The ability to overcome adversity together
The strength of love is tested through difficult periods such as work pressure, family upheavals or personal failures.
If you two have overcome storms together and still maintained cohesion, it is solid evidence of the durability of the relationship.
Ready to compromise
Marriage is a process of adjusting the personal ego to integrate into common life.
You are really willing when you know how to put "our" interests above individual needs, willing to sacrifice individual interests for the stability and long-term happiness of the home.
