The reason why the beauty of "Princess Pearl" said no to marriage

Chí Long |

At the age of 45, actress Qin Lan still maintains her point of view: not getting married or having children, just living and shining for herself.

Qin Lan, born in 1979, is a famous Chinese actress. In 1999, she studied accounting at Shenyang University of Technology (China) but soon realized that she did not like this job. Half a year later, Qin Lan won a beauty contest, then embarked on the path of acting.

The actress began to become famous with the role of Tran Tri Hoa - the concubine of Crown Prince Vinh Ky in the film "Hoan Chau Cach Cach 3" (2003).

Later, Tan Lam's name was increasingly affirmed, attracting many fans through her roles in "Cuon cuon hong tran" (2013), "Dien Hi cong luoc" (2018), "Trai tim rieng song" (2022), "Chuyen banh dia roc" (2023)...

Tan Lam tung vao vai Phu Sat hoang hau trong “Dien Hi cong luoc“. Anh: Nha san xuat
Qin Lan played the role of Empress Fuca in “Story of Yanxi Palace.” Photo: Producer

Many viewers of "Hoan Chau Cach Cach" or "Dien Hi Cong Luoc" believe that the role in the film accurately reflects Tan Lam's personality in real life - an elegant, gentle woman, devoted to her family and her man.

However, in reality, Tan Lam is an independent, straightforward person who does not follow conservative concepts such as the pressure to get married and have children at the right age. Instead, she chooses to date men just for love.

From 2004 to 2006, Qin Lan had a relationship with actor Huang Xiaoming - Angelababy's ex-husband. She even agreed to pay her management company a fine of 10 million NDT (nearly 35 billion VND) to be with him.

Qin Lan then dated director Lu Chuan when they worked together on the film "Nanjing! Nanjing!" (2009). However, they eventually decided to "go their separate ways" in 2014.

In 2020, at the age of over 40, Qin Lan participated in an interview revolving around love and marriage. When asked about a woman's responsibility to give birth, the actress caused a stir with her response: "What does it have to do with you if I don't use my uterus?".

Tan Lam said that her attitude towards love and marriage is the same as her acting - it is natural, not forced: "Over the past few years, I have also encountered many urges to get married, being told that not getting married is irresponsible. I find it very strange, because in my opinion, getting married only because you are forced to get married is irresponsible."

At the end of 2023, Qin Lan was suspected of dating actor Wei Daxun, who is 10 years her junior. According to SCMP, their relationship is said to be going well until now. However, the two have no intention of getting married.

Trai qua nhieu moi tinh, Tan Lam van lua chon khong ket hon va sinh con. Anh: Sohu
After many relationships, Tan Lam still chose not to get married and have children. Photo: Sohu

In a recent interview, Qin Lan mentioned that she had been rejected by her ex-boyfriends who proposed to her. Qin Lan insisted that she did not want to get married.

“Everyone wants to find their perfect match in a romantic relationship, but that perfect match only exists in a screw factory,” she said.

The actress chooses to be single and supports a lifestyle like the stars, "just shining for yourself".

While dating her younger boyfriend, Tan Lam still worked hard and achieved many successes in her career. Her views on marriage and having children are also agreed with and admired by many people.

"She is a role model for us women. Only get married if you really want to, not because others force you," a netizen commented on Weibo.

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