As parents, everyone wants their children to be loved and cared for enough, says Dr Chandni Tugnait, a psychotherapist and life coach in India. But because of the busy work, sometimes we do not realize that our child is feeling lonely or neglected. Children do not say that directly, but often express it through their daily behavior, emotions or behavior. Just be a little more thoughtful, parents will realize that their children really need you by their side. Here are 7 common signs that Onlymyhealth experts point out:
Children become complacent or worried when around others
If your child was once lively and approachable but has recently become quiet, shy or worried when interacting with others, he may not feel fully cared for. Children may think that they are not getting the attention they have before and feel sad or abandoned.
Children who commit acts of disorder at home or school
Children's frequent hot flashes, causing hardship or discomfort is not necessarily due to damage, but can be a sign that they need more attention. When they do not receive active attention, children can choose to behave negatively to get their parents' attention.
Children always wrap tangerines or want to be by your side
When your child constantly wants to be around, asks for hugs, sleeps with, or is uncomfortable when you pay attention to others, he may feel emotionally unsafe. These behaviors demonstrate the need to be connected and receive more attention.
Children who are jealous of others are more cared for by their friends
When children show jealousy towards siblings or friends that are more noticed by friends, they may feel overlooked or not cared for enough. Children are very sensitive to emotional fairness and always want to be loved equally.
Children are prone to crying, often sad or quiet
If your child is often sad, emotional or silent more than usual, they may feel lonely or not cared enough. Children need emotional attachment and care to feel safe and avoid falling into a negative state.
Young people often dream, lose concentration
When children are often unapercious or dreamy, it may be because they feel bored or not mentally stimulated enough. When they do not receive enough attention and interaction, children are easily distracted and have difficulty concentrating on what they are doing.
Children often seek recognition from others
If children often ask whether they are doing well or are very sensitive to compliments, they may lack confidence and need to be affirmed more. When they do not receive enough attention and recognition, children will try to seek that from those around them.
Note
According to Dr. Chandni Tugnait, children do not always know how to express their needs clearly, but emotions are always expressed through behavior. Small changes in behavior are a sign that children need affection, care and connection from their parents.
