Women only give up when they are hurt to the end

Trần Lâm (T/H) |

No woman has suddenly turned her back on the shelter she had built. They only let go when they were exhausted with endurance.

1. Exhausted emotions - a silent blow in marriage

Women are sensitive. When they love, they love with all their hearts. When building a family, they are willing to sacrifice. But emotions are limited. The constant arguments, the days of being left behind in silence, the times of hope and disappointment - all are piling up, making them tired.

A psychologist once said: "A woman does not need her husband to do big things, just need to be listened to and cared for. When the smallest emotional needs are neglected, they will gradually withdraw, both physically and mentally."

2. When there is nothing to hope for

Women wait patiently, not because of weakness but because they believe in change. They forgive because they think the other person will be different. But a person who refuses to correct his mistakes and does not grow up in love is also the time when trust is eroded to the point of drying up.

Hope turns into sadness. Because love is not a monotony, it cannot exist if only one person keeps it.

3. January 18 is familiar with loneliness - an invisible crack between two people

The scariest loneliness is not when alone, but when living with one person but no longer present. The questions are gradually fading. Interesting gestures disappear. Meals no longer have laughter, the room is just two quiet places.

Loneliness is like a blemish - at first it was small, but over the years, it silently broke the foundation of happiness. The woman was initially startled, but in the end... got used to it. And when loneliness no longer hurts them, that is when they are ready to leave.

4. Provincial alertness and the journey back to self

At one point, women realized that they had lost themselves too long in the role of wife and mother. They began to crave to revive themselves - someone who had loved, had dreamed, was strong, and proud.

They realized that they deserved a more complete love, a partner who knew how to appreciate it, not a relationship with only responsibility and indifference.

A psychologist at the University of Social Sciences and Humanities shared: marriage cannot only exist by obligation. To avoid losing each other, husband and wife must learn to communicate emotions, listen without judgment and nurture love every day".

This expert also gives some practical advice, always spend quality time together: No matter how busy, keep moments spent alone with two people - a dinner without a phone, a simple walk.

Do not let the damage last long. Controversy is inevitable, but resolve it as soon as possible. Long-term silence is the "kill" of love.

Don't be afraid to express your needs. Everyone has their own desires. Speaking is not to demand, but to understand each other better.

Respect your private space. Marriage is not a disolution. Let the other person still be themselves, have passion, have their own quiet space without being controlled.

Not everyone who leaves is the one who gives up. Sometimes, leaving is a way for women to save themselves from the hopeless damage - and find themselves, the best version of themselves.

There are women who do not demand high luxury, they only need a bequest to find love. And when they are no longer loved, they will leave - quietly, but resolutely.

Trần Lâm (T/H)
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