In recent episodes of the movie "The Wind Across the Blue Sky", the marriage of My Anh (Phuong Oanh) and Dang (Doan Quoc Dam) is on the brink of breaking up. My Anh left a divorce papers and took her son, Minh, out of the house.
The scene of Minh running out of the car, saying goodbye to his father and giving him a box of his snacks moved viewers, and at the same time reminded the audience to ask the question "How do children suffer when their family breaks up? ".
Moving back to live with his grandfather, Minh could not hide his sadness. The boy cried secretly every night, expressing that he did not want his parents to break up. Minh's story truly reflects the psychology of children in real life: many children also fall into a state of anxiety, insecurity, feeling the loss of a familiar part of love and having to adapt to the new living environment.
Children's pain is not only the loss of a loved one, but also the mental pressure when witnessing conflict or conflict between father and mother.
In fact, children in divorced families often go through many difficult stages: from sadness, loneliness to self-blame or fear of abandonment. Changes in daily habits, meals, sleep, friends and social activities can all become a source of mental stress. Many children show signs of depression, stress or difficulty concentrating on studying if not properly cared for.
Many Vietnamese families have also witnessed children being directly affected when parents have conflicts or leave each other. Maintaining consensus, clear explanations and spending time caring for children will help reduce pain and feelings of insecurity.
Small moments like Minh giving candy to his father or mother are proof that children are always hungry for complete love, even though their parents are no longer together.
This story is a reminder for adults, when divorcing, protecting the psychology of young people, listening and accompanying them is important. Children need to feel that love is still present, helping them adapt, mature and maintain faith in family happiness in the future.
