Mr. Hung (character name has been changed) shared on social networks that he is a man who spends most of his time with his family, from taking care of his wife and children, cooking, washing clothes to picking up and dropping off and teaching his children.
In all 3 times his wife gave birth, he was also the one who directly took care of his wife during confinement.
However, his marriage gradually saw many cracks as his wife's job developed. Mr. Hung is not highly educated, currently working near home with an income of about 8 million VND/month. His wife used to be a saleswoman, then switched to working as a credit saleswoman and has a much higher income.
According to him, each month his wife gives about 15 million VND to pay for grocery, food, electricity, water and living expenses. She also pays tuition fees for 3 children, taking care of both sides of the family. The family is paying in installments for the common house with an amount of nearly 20 million VND per month also taken care of by his wife.
In general, I only worry about eating and drinking, and the big and important work is taken care of by my wife alone," he shared.
Therefore, although he often felt sad when his wife often came home late for the reason of meeting customers, Mr. Hung still tried to sympathize. However, what really made him lose faith was the times his wife cheated.
He discovered his wife having an affair about 5 times, including superiors and partners. Each time he discovered it, he advised and forgave her in the hope that his wife would change to protect the family. However, similar things continued.
The latest incident that put Mr. Hung in a difficult situation was the discovery of his wife's pregnancy.
One day, seeing his wife tired and taking time off work, he bought her porridge. After eating, his wife showed signs of nausea and went to the restroom for quite a long time. When cleaning up the trash, he accidentally discovered a pregnancy test with two lines of results.
What shocked Mr. Hung was that the couple had not had sex for about 2 years. When asked, his wife admitted that the child was not her husband's. She said she was "wronged", wanted to have children and take responsibility for raising the child with the other man.
The wife also cried, begging her husband not to leave her. However, Mr. Hung said that after many betrayals, his feelings for his wife were almost depleted. He no longer felt jealous but mainly tired.
However, he still cannot decide on divorce because of 3 children in common. He is worried that his children will suffer if their parents divorce. Meanwhile, with an income of about 8 million VND/month, he is also not sure if he can afford to raise his children on his own.
If he continues the marriage, he does not know how to face the child his wife is pregnant with. Mr. Hung wonders if he can live with a child who is not his biological child, and at the same time worried that innocent children will be affected by adult mistakes.
Amidst his wife's betrayal, economic constraints and responsibilities to his children, Mr. Hung is currently facing a difficult choice: continue to live together for his children or end the marriage that has exhausted him.
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