In modern life, children not only need to be protected and loved, but also need to be trained to develop independence and resilience in the face of difficulties and challenges. The lessons and experiences they gain will soon help them confidently face the challenges of adulthood.
The following 3 ways that parents can refer to will help children practice and enhance their independence, as advised by experts at the child care organization Change Group LL (USA).
Don't solve every problem for children
With love for their children, parents often tend to solve problems quickly and effectively for their children. However, experts say that this can cause children to lose the opportunity to learn important skills such as: how to solve problems and develop strategies to face difficulties in life.
To help children become more confident , parents should encourage them to find their own solutions before asking for help from others. Let them know that parents are always ready to support all choices, and the final decision must be theirs. In this way, children will gradually gain confidence and the ability to face any problem without depending on others.
Encourage children to participate in housework
Participating in simple household chores like washing dishes, cooking, or folding clothes not only helps children learn essential life skills, but also increases their confidence when they feel that they can do things well.
When children complete a task, parents should not be stingy with praise but encourage them with words like: "Parents are very happy to have you help with housework."
Participating in simple household chores will also provide children with opportunities to learn time management, develop discipline and realise that their efforts are valuable. These are skills that help children become more confident in life.
Help children express their own personality and opinions
Psychologists recognize that some children are often afraid of failure, anxious and hesitant to express their own personality and opinions. Therefore, help your child reduce pressure and comfortably discuss all surrounding issues.
This is also a way to help children be confident, fearless and find effective solutions to solve any problems they face in life later on.
