Judgment

Lê Vinh |

No need to let something happen too much, society is ready to judge you.

In a tennis, badminton, table tennis, pickleball or badminton match, at the point scored after the ball/badminton hits the net, athletes often raise their hands to apologize to the opponent. Usually it is, because it is a polite act, no law requires them to do so.

In football, a player who scores against his former team is usually not celebrated. That is respect, but no one, no organization or club, forces them to do that. But what if the players celebrate? would it be disrespectful?

This is also a new thing in the V.League. It is not too difficult to see reactions on social networks, on forums, even in the press and media. There are more criticisms and defendants. Saying all kinds of things is not good. If you avoid being subjective and accept that it is a "regular thing in society" - drama that comes to life and then goes on, you can ignore it. But it seems that the majority do not like peace, even if sometimes it is just a worm, seeing a phenomenon that is not inherent.

As fans of your former team, you see it as an insult. In return, in the position of a new team fan, they also have the right to feel offended if the player does not celebrate after scoring. Standing between two " bulletins", how will players avoid it? Don't say that fans of the new team should "sympathize" because the players have many other opportunities to score!

It is impossible not to say that the players themselves also have certain emotions in such situations, so, the problem is, do we see any disrespect or insult towards their former team in that way of celebrating? If not, why are we so angry?

You have worked for one unit for many years, then moved to another agency. Then one day, both sides have to fight for a project and you are the character of " scoring an important point", will you go home crying, feeling sorry for the old agency, or celebrate with your colleagues in the new agency?

All these stories are not for answers. Such situations are also a psychological trap, revealing a society, an era that loved to judge.

Let's just be gentle and gentle with each other. Because there are many other things to worry about and have to do.

Lê Vinh
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