With each article I share , I hope to receive sympathy and advice from friends and acquaintances through encouraging comments or joking with me.
But recently, when I began to share about the pressures of work, my love life, and received negative feedback about myself. Talking to my mother, she said, the neighbors asked, lately (is he) unemployed or has nothing to do, so he only complains online?
My mother also told me to limit posting too much personal information on social networks to avoid gossip and unnecessary rumors.
I used to think posting news on personal pages was everyone's right to freedom. But then I look back, am I exposing everything on social networks, both happy and sad?
Same story, each person has a different perspective. People who understand and sympathize with me think that it is sharing and recording life. People who don't understand consider it as complaining and just bury themselves in the virtual world all day.
I started thinking, on my personal page, should I block contacts with people who are not on the same frequency or choose to make my "home" more private, only friends can follow and understand what I mean? ?
Or do I also need to reconsider whether it is necessary for everything in life to be posted on social networks for others to see?
Each person has their own life, every day when surfing social networks, we all want to receive positive energy and information rather than negative. So, maybe it's partly my fault for sharing my life too freely.
I also see many young people choosing to release their pressure by sharing everything on social networks. Someone told me they were blocked from contact by their friends on social networks because they were upset with their complaining posts.
Social networks are sometimes also the face of each person, posting also needs to be selective so that people have a more sympathetic view, and cannot be equated with "my home, I have the right to share".
