Then he continued: Boy B asked his boss to let him go to school to get a second university degree. The company has many urgent projects at the end of the year, so asking to go like that is really not the right time. This guy just wants to quickly build up all kinds of degrees to get promoted. His ambition is limitless.
He listened to the story and just smiled, took a sip of tea and said: People often remind each other that there are three things in life: Your own business, other people's business and God's business. Why do you spend so much time worrying about other people's business when your perspective is not necessarily correct? You see that Ms. A is not a good match for her husband, but how do you know that they are not happy because sometimes each person sees the best parts of each other! You see that Mr. B is ambitious, but who knows, for B, it is also a desire to learn to rise up, a personal goal that is not just a matter of title, but if it is, it is also normal.
He paused for a moment, then continued slowly: Besides, why do you spend your mind and time thinking and worrying about other people's business? Spend your time worrying about your family! His words startled him. Last night, his wife had just blamed him for not caring about his children. His youngest son was about to transfer schools so he wouldn't have to travel far and would have time to play soccer - his favorite sport. His sister graduated this year and was looking for a job that was both relevant to her major and easy to make money. As for his wife, she was wondering whether or not to join the race for the position of sales manager at the company... He didn't care much about all of that because he usually left it to his wife because she was resourceful.
He continued slowly: After all, living in this world requires knowing how to do the right thing, love the right person, and let go at the right time. Focusing too much on evaluating and judging others, forgetting to take care of yourself and your loved ones is a mistake. Everyone has their own life, with their own joys, sorrows, and choices. Respect each person's right to be themselves.
