Among them, many young people are over 25 years old or some are over 30 years old. They admit that they have no need to date or want to marry anyone. The reason they give is... laziness.
Right in my office, a GenZ colleague boldly declared that she had no need to seek a relationship beyond friendship even though she already had a stable income and life.
This colleague said she just wants to spend time for herself, enjoy trips and take care of her health through beauty treatments...
In our U40 generation, people often mentioned the phrase “lazy to love” or “fear of love” because they had experienced one or several unfulfilled relationships that made them lose faith in love. But at the present time, many young people have stable lives, are not tied to family finances but still say they are lazy to get to know someone.
In fact, when economic life develops, young people are often busy with work and have too much pressure along with family expectations. Some people feel tired after 8 hours in the office, do not want to go out, do not want to communicate or develop a love relationship. Some people think that love or marriage is associated with too much responsibility and pressure. Because many young people, both men and women, when sharing on social networks, say that they are afraid of marriage, afraid of love because of the expectations from their families of "equal social status", spending too much money to raise children, get married or simply love.
Everyone has their own experiences, the most important thing is that each person feels comfortable and happy with their decision. But somehow, many young people today are focusing too much on one issue and forgetting other values. In particular, they often mention love and marriage in a negative way and worry about many problems.
Each person must balance the needs of life and spend time on love and marriage. Because depending on each person's perspective, at each time, love, marriage or having children gives the individual many interesting and sweet experiences and makes the individual more mature and stronger.
