According to him, she had all kinds of bad habits: she was always late for all kinds of reasons, she was stingy like the “Miser” in Moliere’s play, and she often complained about everything. The bespectacled man smiled sympathetically and said that his girlfriend was no pushover either. According to her horoscope, she was a yang woman, so she was as hot-tempered as a tiger, couldn’t control her emotions, and had many times made him lose face in front of a crowd. She also had a long memory and was prone to accumulating sins, so when she got angry, she would do everything in one go.
Both looked at each other and sighed. Trying to change your lover's personality was like trying to push a boulder up a mountain, both tiring and useless. The more you gave advice, the stronger the reaction from your lover, feeling like you were touching the other person's ego, making things worse.
A young girl sitting nearby, looking quite cool from her hairstyle and makeup, couldn't help but blurt out: Sorry to interrupt you two, but why do you want to change your lover's personality? We women only change when we want to change. No matter what anyone says, it's useless. Moreover, you want to change to make things more comfortable, to make it easier to control. Then she smiled lightly: Maybe the best way to change someone is not to try to fix them, but to learn to love them with all their flaws. Love is not only about sweet moments, but also about patience and accompanying each other through all difficulties. Instead of trying to force your lover to change, try to change your perspective and accept it. Who knows, the biggest change might come from you.
The bearded guy listened to the "lesson" but did not get angry and smiled: You study psychology. Then he nodded: Actually, people are always looking for suitable pieces, but to fit perfectly, it is difficult to find even with a torch, so when you find the most suitable piece, you just choose it. Fixing is also to cut and trim the piece to make it fit better. Anyway, come here and sit with us, have a drink. Maybe you are the piece I am looking for.
