At "Perfect Mix", Ms. Le Thi Nhung (46 years old) told People's Artist Hong Van the story of her divorce 6 years ago. The eldest son is Tri Tuan, 20 years old this year; the middle son is Tri Tu and the youngest daughter is in 7th grade. After the divorce, Ms. Le Thi Nhung continued her business in the garment sector.
She alone took care of and raised her children to grow up and study seriously. Ms. Nhung is always proud of her children's academic achievements: all three are well-educated, diligent in studying, know how to listen to adults and always receive scholarships and good degrees.
People's Artist Hong Van believes that the fact that parents no longer live together can easily make children fall into a state of boredom and mental stress. In fact, about 80% of children in this situation are at risk of falling into social evils, becoming rebellious or being negatively affected. However, with the advice of all three brothers, that did not happen.
It is the maturity of the children that makes Nhung feel more secure. There are times when studying requires calmness; if they still live together in conflict, parents' arguments will negatively affect their children's learning outcomes.
Nhung's eldest son, Nguyen Tri Tuan, shared: "When my parents divorced, I felt quite normal. Because I thought that if parents were no longer compatible, they should separate. Forcing will not bring good results". He confided that his mother was a companion, and the mother and daughter often shared private stories.
Before and after his parents' divorce, Mr. Nguyen Tri Tuan noticed that his mother's mood and life had changed more positively. Perhaps because she no longer has to endure disagreements from her husband, Ms. Nhung is happier and more optimistic every day, having more time to rest and enjoy life with her children.
As a woman of Northern origin, divorce was a big deal in Nhung's family. However, the eldest son was always by his side, ready to accompany his mother throughout the journey to overcome difficulties.
Ms. Nhung touched the People's Artist Hong Van: “I am very surprised to see that my child is too mature and thoroughly understanding. Many times I have received the support from my child about being able to take a step more in love story. I always advise me to find a partner to help me to live alone. I once knew a brother of Nha Trang who lived in Europe. Play, coffee with friends more ”.
Mr. Nguyen Tri Tuan always hopes that his mother will find a partner to accompany her mother on his behalf. He thought it was the right thing to do. Because he felt the endless love that Ms. Le Thi Nhung had for him, he was sure that his mother would never abandon or reduce her affection for him.
He was willing to let his mother share that love with someone else - something he really wanted. However, he also commented that Nhung's mother was "a bit difficult, it was difficult for anyone to get into her eyes". People's Artist Hong Van commented: "In Nhung's heart, there are three parts, two of which are for her children, only a part is for herself, so it is difficult for anyone to believe that".
