As one of the famous "mothers" in showbiz, actress Lan Phuong always attracts the attention of netizens with every article or vlog around the topic of family. Recently, the actress continued to make a video sharing how to raise and care for her daughter Lina on her personal page.
The female artist said that her daughter Lina is independent and obedient, but there are times when she cannot help but cry and get angry. According to Lan Phuong, this was a time when her daughter was very scared because of an outburst of anger that she could not control herself. Therefore, parents are the ones who are important in helping children control these negative conditions in a timely manner.
The actress of The Bride of an Order explained that this comes from the fact that children always learn, explore many things and want to do their own thing in their adulthood.
The above manifestations are not the fault of the child but are only in the development process of any child. Parents need to stay calm, gentle, and choose a gentle way of communication to help their children understand the situation. When children see your gentle attitude, it will help them understand that this is not something too scary, so their emotions will be more controlled, she analyzed.
In addition, the actress also gave notes when her child cried angrily. First, parents need to stay calm, second is to distract the child with questions or give him games that he or she enjoys. In the case of a child in a waist area and crying a lot, at this time, mother needs to run to hug the child tightly. The above action will show your child the solid but gentle enough adult arms, the affection helps him find safety.
On the other hand, with a second solution, just sit still and let the child cry until the child calms down. After that, the two will discuss and confide in each other and the mother will clearly explain the reason as well as gently advise the child not to repeat the offense next time.
According to Lan Phuong, the most important thing is to show children the respect and understanding from their parents about the problems they have gone through.
"Parents should always stay calm and look at the child's eyes, depending on the child, one or 5 minutes later the child will stop being anxious, and listen to her mother". Lan Phuong also revealed that little Lina even smiled blatantly when she found her opposition so funny and unreasonable.
Although busy with work, the actress always takes good care of her small family. Lan Phuong also feels lucky to have her husband and family support her in taking care of her child during her busy time at work.