In married life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always one of the most concerned relationships.
differences in generation, lifestyle, and outlook can cause two women in the family to face certain difficulties. However, understanding and sympathizing with each other will help the relationship become harmonious, respectful and full of love. Here are the secrets to help harmonize the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
1. Understanding and sympathizing with mother-in-law
Her mother-in-law is also a mother, who gave birth and raised her husband. For so many years, the love and attachment between mother and child have been deep, so accepting a woman from afar to come and take care of her son together is sometimes not easy. Put yourself in her position to understand and be more tolerant, instead of just looking at yourself from your perspective.
2. Listen to and Respect Council
Listening to your mother-in-law not only helps to harmonize the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law but also shows your filial piety, respect, and respect for your role and family discipline. When she shares life experiences, views on raising children or any issue, try to listen sincerely. Even if you do not agree, express your opinion respectfully instead of reacting strongly.
3. Building empathy through small actions
Small things like greeting you in the morning, saying thank you for cooking, taking care of your children or asking about your daily health... can help strengthen the relationship. Respect and love always come from the smallest things.
In addition, every mother-in-law likes and approves the daughter-in-law for being both beautiful and beautiful. If I had known how to do housework, it would have been much better. Home is a place to return to, knowing how to do housework will help the daughter-in-law look more beautiful in the eyes of her mother-in-law.
All work is handled skillfully, stably, reasonably in all situations, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is increasingly improved, which makes mother-in-law respect her more.
4. Sharing and asking for husband's support
Husband plays an important role in connecting mother and wife. Let's discuss and set clear principles for living together, such as sharing housework, regulating personal boundaries... When there is any problem, the husband can be the one to help resolve it harmoniously. Let men be proactive, don't push them into a passive position.
5. Patience and flexibility
disagreements will be inevitable in each relationship, but instead of arguing over defeat, try to stay calm and find flexible ways to handle it. Patience does not mean endurance, but is a way to maintain peace in the family.
The harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to promote empathy, respect and sincerity. When both sides move towards a warm and harmonious family, all conflicts can be resolved with love.
