The secret to helping women become more confident and happier in marriage

Trần Lâm - Bích Nhung |

Marriage not only requires love, but also the ingenuity, confidence and sophistication of women to keep the fire burning for family life.

There is a truth that everyone who has ever entered marriage understands: love is not enough. Love is a beautiful starting point, but to keep the fire of marriage burning, women need more than that - need initiative, intelligence, and even a soft but profound fine art.

Here are seemingly small "secrets" but are extremely useful to help women become more confident and happier in married life.

1. Makingung at the right time - art makes husband and wife not leave

Women are cool - it seems childish, but in fact it is a soft skill that a smart wife always knows how to apply. A light hug when he is stressed, a cute whisper when he needs attention... is the way to " Say it without words" saying: "I need you".

However, as psychologist Dinh Doan once commented: "Makingung is a sweetener, but if used at the wrong time, the wrong dose will be counterproductive. When your husband is tired and stressed, choose to stay silent, not get complacent.

Therefore, making aunge is most effective when it comes with sophistication - making men feel important, not being bothered.

2. Compliments to your husband - don't hesitate to encourage

One of the mistakes that makes many marriages dry is the habit of... comparing. Many wives say sentences such as: "I learn from someone else's husband" with the hope that my husband will be better, but unintentionally hurt and make him feel inferior.

Meanwhile, a timely compliments have much greater power. When your husband finishes the housework, when he overcomes financial pressure, or simply when he shaves his beard cleanly - let's praise it. Let him see that you are recognized.

Men sometimes do not need flowers. They just need to feel like a hero in the eyes of their wives.

3. Keeping distance let memories change to love

After getting married, many women tend to want to stick with their husbands 24/7 partly because of love, partly because of insecurity. However, it is the restless tangling that easily makes men feel suffocated.

A lasting relationship is a relationship that knows how to create its own space. Women should live independently: go to coffee with friends, pursue a passion, learn an additional skill. When you shine in your own world, you not only make your husband respect you but also renew yourself in his eyes.

A just enough distance is the space for love to flourish - to remember, to cherish and to continue to stick with.

4. Self-care - love yourself before loving others

Sometimes, women for the family neglect themselves: forget to take care of their appearance, forget to pursue their interests, and forget their childhood dreams. But overly sacrificing is never a way to maintain long-term happiness.

Women who know how to love themselves - know how to stay healthy, dress well, and live ambitiously - always have their own appeal. She is not for her husband to love her as at first, but for him to constantly explore and cherish.

5. Learn to communicate actively - speak less, understand more

Finally, the most important skill in marriage is communication. Don't just speak to criticize, speak to understand. Don't stay angry and keep quiet, learn to share at the right time. If each conflict is resolved calmly, listening and respectfully, it will make the relationship more mature.

Happy women are not those who have a perfect husband, but those who know how to improve themselves in the journey of love and love. Marriage will not be easy, but with confidence, gentleness and tact, women will become a persistent and courageous fire keeper in their home.

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