In life, arguments are inevitable in all relationships. However, the way we handle each conflict determines the sustainability of the relationship.
Giving each other space to calm down
After an argument, emotions are often very angry and vulnerable. Giving each other time and space to calm down is very necessary. When emotions subside, each person will have the opportunity to think carefully and look at the problem more objectively.
tell the story sincerely and listen
When ready, sit back and talk honestly. The important thing is to listen to the other person without interrupting or refuting immediately. Listening helps you better understand the other person's feelings and views, thereby easily finding a reasonable solution.
Admit your mistakes and apologize
One of the most important steps to heal is to dare to admit your mistakes and know how to apologize to others. A sincere apology will help soothe the hurt and show respect for the other person. Even if you are not completely wrong, apologize for what you have done to others.
Together, find ways to avoid repeating conflicts
After reconciliation, both should think together and agree on how to behave so as not to hurt each other again. This helps the relationship become stronger, avoiding similar misunderstandings in the future.
Preserve and foster affection
Finally, take time to care for and foster the relationship. Each time overcoming an argument is an opportunity for both of them to understand each other better and bond more closely. Love and respect will help your relationship become more and more solid.
