According to many studies published in prestigious international newspapers such as The New York Times and The Guardian, many parents unintentionally repeat seemingly correct parenting habits that have a long-term impact on children's psychology and development.
Raising children has never been an easy journey. In the pressure of modern life, many parents want their children to succeed, so they place high expectations without realizing they are making common mistakes below.
1. Compare children with others
Child psychologists believe that constant comparisons cause children to develop feelings of inferiority and lack of self-worth. Instead of creating motivation, this reduces confidence and increases psychological pressure.
2. Scolding instead of talking
Studies on positive parenting show that calm communication helps children understand problems better than scolding. Children need to be guided on how to correct mistakes, not just criticized.
3. Overprotection
Many analyses on the BBC show that doing everything for children can hinder their self-reliance. Children who do not experience failure will find it difficult to train problem-solving skills.
4. Putting emphasis on academic achievements
Prolonged grade pressure can lead to anxiety and stress. Education experts encourage parents to balance achievements and life skills.
5. Do not set an example for children
Children learn through observation. If parents are impatient, easily angered, or do not keep their promises, children will absorb those behaviors faster than any teaching.
Identifying these common mistakes is the first step to change. When parents adjust their behavior, the family environment will become a solid foundation to help children develop more confidently and happier.
