Tet is not only a gathering occasion but also an important opportunity for parents to teach their children about how to behave, greet and show respect to adults. According to the parenting website Parents, children learn best social behavior through observation and repetition in the family environment. Therefore, parents' behavior in early year meetings will become the clearest "life lesson" for children.
One of the important principles is to set an example before reminding. When parents actively greet, say thank you, and ask for permission properly, children will naturally imitate. The Harvard Center on the Developing Child emphasizes that young children develop social skills through positive and consistent interaction from caregivers.
In addition, parents should guide their children to prepare for common situations such as Tet greetings, receiving lucky money, or when asked. Gentle "practice" at home helps children feel more confident when communicating. Instead of forcing, explain the meaning of politeness so that children understand that it is a way to show respect, not a heavy obligation.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, encouraging children to express their emotions and thoughts politely also contributes to forming lasting communication skills. If children mistakenly behave incorrectly, parents should remind them privately, avoiding public criticism that makes children ashamed.
More importantly, maintain consistency after Tet. Politeness is not only for the first few days of the year but needs to become a daily habit in the family. When children live in a respectful and loving environment, understanding will form naturally.
The first days of the year are a good start for parents to sow in their children seeds of politeness, gratitude and sophistication in behavior. It is also a foundation to help children grow up confidently and be loved in all relationships.
