Mr. Viet Tri shared that their love started when he had just graduated and met Ms. Thuy Trang - a woman 5 years older than him. The initial age gap creates many concerns, from the difference in the way of calling to worrying about maturity in thinking.
Ms. Thuy Trang was afraid that young people would not be stable enough and afraid of change over time. Psychologist Ly Thi Mai commented that age-restricted marriage is not a big barrier, but it is prejudice and fear in psychology that create distance between two people.
When asked "In marriage, who is the real breadwinner?", Mr. Viet Tri and Ms. Thuy Trang looked back at the difficult early years. When they first got married, the family still had many shortcomings, he only had an old car to work away from home, causing the couple to not meet each other for many months.
Mrs. Thuy Trang emotionally recounted the days when she saw her husband return thin and blue, both sympathizing and worrying. The small, dilapidated house at that time was a testament to the perseverance and efforts of both when they overcame difficulties together, gradually building a family.
When MC Dinh Toan asked about conflicts in marriage, Ms. Thuy Trang frankly shared that controversy is inevitable, mostly due to Mr. Viet Tri's hot personality and work pressure. However, for the children and for love, she always chooses to give in and keep the family in harmony. For his part, Mr. Viet Tri expressed his respect and gratitude to his wife for accompanying and shouldering all the difficulties during many years of living together.
The most touching moment of the program was when Dr. Ly Thi Mai asked: "If I had the opportunity to choose in the future, would you still choose your partner as husband and wife?", Mr. Viet Tri choked up as he replied that he would still choose Ms. Thuy Trang. For him, "there are loves that are not measured by years, but by what two people have gone through together".
From the story of Viet Tri - Thuy Trang, the program "Husband and Wife Harmony" sends a profound message about love and companionship in marriage: "carrying" is not only a responsibility, but also a testament to love, trust and perseverance.
