She not only recounted her marriage tragedy and emotional mistakes, but also sent a warning message to those who are caught up in an unrequited relationship.
Ms. X said that more than 10 years ago, she was the economic pillar of the family, had a successful business and had a full life. However, when faced with a financial crisis, she decided to invest recklessly despite her husband's efforts, causing the family to fall into debt. Economic stress gradually caused the couple to separate, even though they still lived together for the children. In loneliness, she received a message from a strange man - who later became the reason for her life to change direction.
"At first, I thought he texted me wrong, but then he asked me every day. When I was sad, as long as someone cared for me, I felt weak and responded, she said. After a few months of talking, the two met. The man said that he was also separated because of his child, making her believe him. At the age of 39, Ms. X - the person who had been through it but still chose to love that man, started a secret relationship that lasted two years.
When her husband wanted to reconcile, she listened to relatives return to the family, but could not end the relationship in the flow. The " bipartite" life lasted for another 5 years, until the day everything broke up. While going to the market with her husband, she was beaten up by a group of people in the middle of a crowd. They cursed me as the third person, beat me in the market, and even took my clothes. Her husband had to intervene, saying: "This is my wife", then they stopped," she choked up as she recalled.
After the incident, her husband invited the other woman to go home to talk and discovered that Ms. X was having an affair with her husband. The shock broke her whole family. Her biological mother and eldest daughter witnessed the whole scene, while her husband since then lived a cold life, considering her as a "man" in his own house. That man - who promised to divorce her to come to her - disappeared without a word.
Director Le Hoang, the host of the program, frankly commented: I am not silly, but I am intentionally silly. A free man will not live a secret life for 5 years. He was bad, but I was wrong."
Without avoiding it, Ms. X admitted: I was weak-hearted, thinking that the love would have a happy ending. But the third person, for whatever reason, is wrong."
Now, she and her husband are still at the same house for the children. Despite her forgiveness, she said she never felt worthy, only feeling lucky that her two children still loved and understood her mother.
"I came to the show not to be sympathized, but to remind everyone not to be like me. Don't let emotions temporarily destroy everything," she said in tears.
