In love, women are often more deep lovers, more sacrifice and more vulnerable. But there is a sad truth: many men are not ugly by the usual definition. They do not commit adultery, do not beat, do not abandon - but still unintentionally make the woman beside them exhausted, gradually eroding their trust and the emotions of life.
Here are the types of men that if you don't recognize them soon, after a while, you will exhaust and forget yourself.
1. Requiring love but not knowing how to love again
They want to be cared for, pampered, served - but have never paid attention to your emotions and needs. They are used to living in a relationship where love is a service, and you are an unpaid employee.
If you text them proactively, they will take it for granted. You try to understand, they think it is an obligation. You are exhausted, they ask why you are no longer as sweet as before. They don't realize: love is not one-sided.
2. Living with negative emotions
No matter what, I complain and blame him. Each conversation is one time you feel like you are doing... "emotional vacuum cleaner". They don't need advice - they just need you to sit and listen and nod. Your fatigue doesn't matter, because they are always the ones who suffer the most.
Gradually, you are no longer your lover, but become an unwilling audience for their endless tragedy.
3. machete control, but in the name of love
They want to know where you are, what you do, who you are with. They suggest how to dress, who to hang out with, and how to live. They don't shout "no guessing" but always make you feel guilty if you don't listen.
That kind of love is not a cover, but a chain. The woman living in that relationship will always find herself wrong, even if sometimes it is just an appointment with a close friend.
4. Never be responsible
They can say things that hurt you, but they never apologize. When conflicts arise, the fault never belongs to them but is because they "think you are like that", because "you are too sensitive", or even: "there is only one of you".
Gradually, they make you suspect yourself, thinking that your mistakes are because you are not good enough. Then you start to apologize even if you're not wrong, and try to fix yourself for someone who never changes.
5. When needed, it disappears
They call you when you are sad, when you need comfort, when everything outside is collapsing. But when you are in pain, they disappear. They know how to borrow your shoulder to cry for, but they have never wiped your tears.
That one-sided relationship does not make you bleed immediately, but it is like a knife that stabs your heart every day.
6. Or joking around by injuring others
They teased your appearance, family background, past and said: Im joking. But you don't laugh, you just feel pain. And it hurts more when you say that, they say you not know how to joke, do it too much.
Love cannot exist where people consider your wound a game of entertainment.
7. Always right for yourself
When debating, they don't listen to understand but win. They ignore your emotions, labeling you "unreasonable", "excessive", "confused".
Over time, you no longer dare to express your true thoughts. You take it back, stay silent to avoid arguing but then realize: you are living with a man who does not value your voice.
8. Love yourself too much, love you too little
He can say he loves you, but all his actions are directed towards himself. Personal plans are always a priority, while those related to you are "to be considered later". In that relationship, you are a giving-in, giving-in, but he just knows how to "enerve".
A man who truly loves you will not let you always be the one to shoulder the burden of love.
You can sympathize with their pain, but that does not mean that they continue to hurt you. You can choose to be tolerant, but you should not choose to accept. And most importantly: remember that you deserve a love that does not make you tired.
If a relationship makes you often feel exhausted, doubt your self-worth, and lose your smile, take courage to step out. Because sometimes giving up the right person is starting over with yourself.
