The fact that children always require unchanged outings and shopping makes it sometimes confused and difficult to solve. Therefore, parents need to have a way to refuse and cleverly handle them to help their children understand and do not require too much to achieve their goals.
Listen to your wishes
Before making a decision to agree or refuse, take the time to listen to your wishes. This will help children feel respect from their parents as well as the two parties can exchange frankly and make the most appropriate decision.
Explain the clear reason
When making a decision after listening to your child's wishes, parents should explain the reason clearly for young children to understand.
Please state the reason when your desire is rejected because at this time is not appropriate, it takes more time to consider before implementation. This is also a way to help children understand the cause without feeling disappointed and disappointed.
Proposal to choose to replace
To help children not feel sad or depressed, parents can consider and propose to children another option more suitable.
This will make children feel the attention, no longer see that their wishes are dismissed aside, lack of care and respect of everyone in the family.