brotherhood is one of the relationships that always need to be nurtured and kept strong over time. However, conflicts or disagreements in views are also inevitable.
Resolving conflicts not only helps maintain a warm and happy family atmosphere but also helps brothers and sisters learn to respect each other.
Carefully find out the cause
Conflicts between siblings originate from many causes at each stage. When they are young, the cause is often the need for toys or the desire for more love from their parents.
When they grow up, differences in personality, outlook on life, or feelings of comparison and unfair treatment can be the trigger for all controversies.
Therefore, at each time, let's solve all problems together, especially the role of parents is very important in keeping children together.
Learn to understand
To resolve family conflicts, a core foundation for maintaining good relationships between siblings is to learn to understand and reduce your ego. From a young age, parents should teach their children to listen, reduce their personal ego and put themselves in the position of others to understand.
Parents should help their children have more open dialogues, play the role of a peaceful person, listen to opinions from all sides instead of being hasty in judgment. It is necessary to establish clear rules of conduct such as not using insulting or violent words so that children know how to respect each other.
Not afraid to express your thoughts
Family members should not be afraid to express their personal thoughts frankly. This is also a way to help understand the relationship between brothers and sisters, avoiding arguments that cause disunity and tension in the family.
Instead of always giving criticism, share your own thoughts and hope for understanding from family members. This also helps brothers and sisters avoid hurting each other and strengthen emotional attachment to each other.
Do not let the conflict last
When conflicts last and become serious, especially in adulthood, reconciliation will be difficult and from there, the brotherhood will gradually cool down. Try to resolve problems and conflicts quickly and as soon as possible so that the relationship does not break down.
Some methods of removing bottlenecks such as talking frankly, finding reasonable solutions to problems, as well as trying to find a common voice in life...
