1. For children - love overcomes disagreements
Children are always a strong connection between husband and wife. Despite many conflicts and disagreements in Married Life, many parents still choose to keep their family because they want their children to have a complete family.
They do not want adult conflicts to become a heart wound in children's childhood. There are couples who choose to "istsist together in peace", hiding personal hurt so that their children can grow up in a stable environment. They learn to restrain themselves, learn to behave civilly, choose dialogue solutions instead of confrontation - for a healthy and happy adult generation.
This sacrifice, if accompanied by efforts to improve and understand each other, can become a motivation for couples to find the original value of love.
2. For responsibility and maturity in thinking
Marriage is not only a place to love, but also a "big school" that teaches people how to take responsibility, how to love for a long time and how to learn to grow together. When conflicts arise, people gradually realize that no one is perfect, and true love does not lie in temporary emotions, but in the ability to forgive, tolerate and commit to going through the storm together.
Many couples choose to stay not because they are afraid of divorce, but because they understand that: a worthy marriage is not an unquestioned marriage, but a place where both of them constantly seek to heal, understand and renew their relationship.
3. For the economy - but not simply calculation
The economy is a practical factor that cannot be separated from married life. But not everyone stays just because they are "afraid of poverty after divorce". There are couples who understand that building a home requires financial support, the responsibility of raising children, and even sharing the burden of life.
They stay, not for material gain, but because they believe that working together to overcome difficulties is more valuable than being alone to nurture themselves.
4. For the love of children and family ethics
In many Vietnamese families, the breakdown of children is what makes the elderly more heartbroken than anything else. For that reason, many couples choose to live a whole life as children: not letting parents worry about old age, not hurting those who have sacrificed their lives for them.
Also because their parents are people who have gone through a storm of marriage, they understand the value of patience and tolerance. It is the resilience and thoroughness of the previous generation that has affected many young couples - helping them look back, so as not to easily give up just a few disagreements.
5. For love and memory
Married life is not only about love, but also full of affection and responsibility, the years together have gone through ups and downs. Some were on the brink of divorce, then suddenly realized: the other had been attached to her since her youth, raising her children with her, overcoming many difficulties. Love may initially fade, but affection is still there - that is what makes people appreciate and not easy to give up.
Not getting divorced does not mean not suffering, but sometimes, it is a manifestation of maturity in love. Couples who stay together after many ups and downs, if they know how to turn conflict into an opportunity to change and renew their relationship, can achieve a deeper and more lasting state of happiness.
Marriage is not a flat road, but if both of you still love, are responsible and still want to try for each other, then the cracks can also be places where the light shines in.
