Many parents often face the resistance and oppositions of young children. Therefore, learning what your child wants and making appropriate plans requires parents to be skillful and patient.
One of the methods proposed by psychologists is the "psychotic reversal" method to help navigate the behavior of young children, thereby reducing emotional and uncontrollable actions in children.
Reversal psychology is a way of proposing things that are opposite to your wishes, to stimulate opposite reactions from children. This method is based on the phenomenon of "ps psychological resistance", when children always tend to do the opposite of what their parents teach them to affirm their ego. However, the application of the above method needs to be considered and applied depending on the actual situation.
For example, when your child often delays assigned housework, instead of constantly reminding, you can say, Maybe this is not important to me, so I will do it for you. This approach can make children aware of their responsibilities and proactively complete assigned tasks.
In addition, listening proactively and showing sympathy from parents will help children open their hearts and start open dialogues, expressing their own opinions.
Parents should also set clear boundaries and unify the principles set out in the family so that children can seriously comply. At the same time, rewarding and rewarding with correct praise and criticism will help children "respect" their parents more.
