Men or women are the same. No one said it, but it is hair that is "quality", fashionable outfits, bright smiles, or a pleasant scent that helps us " granted each other green eyes" before we can express our sharp intelligence or open hearts.
People often say don't look at your face but take a dong photo. Hearing that, but asking: if you don't see your face, how can you see? Can you hold a dong like... the frequency of spiritual vibrations? In life, it seems that before being moved, we need to look at each other.
Appearance is not for show off, but a small sign: I know how to take care of myself. I respect the person in front. I want to enter the world with my best version. That is precious enough. neat men make others feel secure. A neat house makes me feel confident. On the contrary, we can... survive, but the opportunities that life opens up for us will be a little less, like the door is only open 5cm instead of being open 90 degrees.
So is the saying "good wood is better than good paint" still true?
That sentence is always true, there are only... not enough.
Because at this time, people want both: Wood must be good, but paint must also be beautiful.
No one wants to buy a wooden lim cabinet but it looks like it has just been collected from the pond. And no one would choose a glossy paint cabinet to open inside with... termites. Good wood is the essence, while paint is a greeting, a card of each person. A person with a beautiful inner heart but a boring, lulling appearance is like a good book but the cover is frowning: people will still read it, but it may be... a bit late.
Therefore, in a world full of options, appearance is like the first "wi-Fi signal" when we enter the meeting. When the waves are weak, it is difficult for people to connect deeply. When the waves are strong and stable, everything becomes easier, and only inside, the good "wood" has the opportunity to speak up.
Exterior painting does not define humanity, but it opens the door for people to see. If someone told you that appearance is not important, then perhaps they have forgotten one thing: Even lotus flowers must be beautiful before people bend down and smell the scent.
She is a beautiful woman that is so attractive that her face is also attractive, but she said that before leaving the house, she always has a long makeup session, stands in front of the mirror carefully and only when she feels completely confident, goes out.