We are born with a "discovery machine" in our heads. When meeting someone, he automatically turned on the evaluation mode: "What kind of clothes is that guy wearing?", "Is that guy allowed to be the boss?", "That girl laughed at me and told me a lie!".
In fact, people often judge others, mostly because they are judging themselves. People who criticize fat all day are often worried about being obese. People who are upset with others often laugh, sometimes just because of themselves for a long time and then forget to be happy. We often examine others with our own inner wounds and create a vicious cycle.
You said: I am living in an era of judgmental clicks, when just one big deal can open a fair trial online. An unusual dressing person is often criticized for being "lucky", posting " momentary" photos traveling abroad is scolded for not knowing how to feel sorry for the poor, why not bring money to do charity work, and if he only posts photos to do charity work, he is often "petrified" and "ms office". Everything is judged, except... the act of judging.
The person who does not judge is actually the one who understands. Because they understand, everyone is fighting for something we don't know. The neighbor or barren may be taking care of her sick mother. The areca driver may have just been charged by a customer. As he often says Everything happens for a reason.
Osho once said that it implied that you became more human, when not judging, it sounded abstract at first, but it was very real. Better is not about having a high moral level, but about living a more comfortable life, knowing how to love yourself and love life.
So, if you see someone dress strangely or make a "cloud" statement today, try to laugh slightly and think: "I don't know if they are trying to make me better in their own way." And if you make a mistake in judgment, it's okay. Just recognize and stop...
Reducing judgment, not to become a better person, but to live a more gentle and comfortable life because "those lives are so many things that are temporary" as musician Trinh Cong Son once wrote in the song "Mua Hong".
