In recent years, this custom has raised many financial issues, especially for young people. Many young people said they are confused when preparing lucky money because they are afraid of being judged, too little or too much both create problems.
Some stories shared on social networks reflect the invisible pressures that this custom brings. A 31-year-old female civil servant shared that she feels pressure when giving lucky money in her first year of Tet at her husband's house. "Some people are afraid of being judged as stingy, but many are beyond their financial capacity" - she said. This is a common feeling for many young people, especially when they cannot be completely financially independent.
Another issue related to lucky money is the perception between the paternal and maternal sides. Usually, children will have to calculate lucky money in a fair way between the two families, showing concern and responsibility. However, many people also realize that lucky money is not a measure of affection or comparison. It is an act of filial piety, care, not competition in terms of material things.
Ms. Hanh - an office worker - shared on social networks: "My husband and I often have to calculate about lucky money for both parents, but most of them send the same amount of money to show balance". This shows that lucky money in the family should not only be limited to the amount of money people send, but is the balance and respect that each person has for the family.
To make lucky money a civilized act but still retain the beauty of tradition, the important thing is understanding and sympathy between generations. First of all, it is necessary to change the perception of lucky money in the family. It should not become a "competition" about the amount of money that each person can spend, but instead, consider it an opportunity to show concern and share feelings.
Lucky money should not be seen as a financial burden but must be an act of expressing sincere feelings. When each person gives lucky money within their ability, wishes and respect will be the real value that remains in the heart of the recipient. The story of Ms. Hanh and many others shows that when we frankly exchange and express our views on giving lucky money, there will no longer be invisible pressures that make this custom a burden.
Besides, it is necessary to understand that lucky money is not only for children but can also be an act of sending love between generations. In this way, lucky money becomes an opportunity to connect family feelings, instead of just a financial obligation.
To prevent this custom from becoming a financial burden or social pressure, each family needs to have understanding and unity about the way of giving lucky money, so that it both retains the traditional beauty and is suitable for modern circumstances. Giving lucky money within the means, giving wishes and respect will be the best way to make Tet light, cozy and meaningful.
