Marriage is an important turning point in the relationship of couples, requiring understanding and consensus from both sides. Let's discuss some issues before preparing to mark a new step forward between the two as well as nurture future life.
Financial management
Finance is one of the important factors in nurturing family life. Therefore, couples need to discuss financial management, from spending, savings, investment, and shared family spending funds. Clear financial management will help couples avoid bad conflicts later. Reversal
Departmenting housework
Sharing housework not only helps both of them clearly feel their responsibilities in the family. Sharing will help one of the two not be overloaded and especially, always feel the attention from the other. Sharing housework and raising children does not need to be too specific, but the important thing is that both feel supported at all times from the other person.
Goals for the future
Everyone has goals for the future such as developing their own career, so don't forget to discuss together to support and strive to achieve your desires together.
view on parenting
Raising children is also a topic of discussion because this will affect both of their future decisions. Let's discuss methods and the role of parents in educating children. Different views on raising children can easily lead to conflicts between the two sides if they cannot find a common voice.
The relationship between the two families
The relationship between the two families also plays an important role in the couple's married life. Try to maintain good family relationships, and show respect for the members of your future partner.
Handling conflicts and conflicts
Controversy is a very inevitable thing that many couples always have to face, so being patient in listening and sharing sincerely will help both avoid conflicts and believe in a married life that is not too pressured by many things around them.