So, how should parents be wise in raising their children? There is no general formula for every family, but there are basic principles that any parent needs to master: developing movement, developing language, developing cognition, and developing emotions - behavior.
Exercise development - The foundation for confidence
Developing physical exercise in young children is divided into two groups: basic physical exercise (small skills such as holding a pen, arranging shapes, drawing...) and rough physical exercise (such as running, jumping, climbing, balancing...). This is a premise to help children explore the surrounding environment, practice confidence and the ability to coordinate between the brain and the body.
It is worth noting that physical development cannot be promoted by "huge ripening", nor can it be replaced by giving children extra classes or using technology. Children need to be exercised properly, suitable for their age, and especially play freely - because through playing, children learn to control their bodies, overcome challenges and build a sense of discipline.
When children are limited in movement due to circumstances such as epidemics, limited space or excessive camtia from adults, it is not only a physical disadvantage, but also affects psychological and personality development in the long term.
Language development - A bridge to the world
Children start to get used to language very early - even in the womb. The ability to listen and understand is always developing before the ability to express in words, so talking, reading and giving positive feedback to children right from the very beginning of the baby is very meaningful.
A child with little capital does not mean they do not understand anything - on the contrary, children can absorb a lot of information if they live in a language-rich environment. Smart parents do not " Say for" or "do for" their children, but encourage them to express their thoughts and listen to them with patience and respect.
Developing language is not only to "talk it well", but also to help children form thinking, the ability to express themselves, connect society and solve problems - core abilities for the journey to adulthood later.
Creativity - Unleash intelligence and creativity
Perception is the process of children understanding and interacting with the world around them through their intelligence. Parents cannot "fill" knowledge into their children's heads like an empty bottle, but need to create conditions for them to proactively observe, think, ask questions and find answers.
Curiosity is a natural instinct of children - don't rush to extinguish it with the saying "why ask so much", but rather stimulate it by exploring with children. Children learn best when they are learning through experience, emotions and attachment to loved ones.
emotional and intellectual connection is the key to helping children not only be "smart" but also " live", know how to orient their behavior positively.
Developing emotions and behavior
Each child is a separate world - with different personalities, emotions and reactions. Some children are happy and open, but there are also quiet and sensitive children. The most important thing for parents is not to "traighten" their children according to the mold, but to understand them, accompany them and help them adjust their emotions and behavior appropriately.
Children need to be loved unconditionally, but also need to be clearly guided about boundaries, rules and responsibilities. Listening when bored, sharing when failed - that is how to help children form self-control, sympathy and build a healthy personality.
A gool child is not necessarily happy, but a child who is properly respected and guided will become a good, confident and resilient person.