I have been in love with him for 2 years and we are planning to get married, but the biggest obstacle is his patriarchy.
Before loving him, both of us had another relationship, although both sides took the initiative to tell each other, it was inevitable that he often mentioned and criticized his "ex".
While pursuing, he expressed and did not care about his lover's past. I am happy to believe that I have found the right person, to love him more because I think he is a modern, understanding person.
He advised me to go out, interact and expand relationships with friends. However, I was shocked until he discussed getting married with a completely different attitude.
He imposed all problems on me, prohibiting many things. He even stipulated that I couldn't date more than 3 friends and had to be a girl. He also set a rule about how much time I am free, how to go home after work to take care of my family.
I suddenly realized that I had been in love with a patriarchal, authoritarian, and authoritarian guy for a long time. Before, I thought about some things he didn't like, strictly too much love and wanted to protect me, but now it seems like everything is different...
The incident reached its peak when he kept saying that I had an unhealthy past, was insulted by many guys before coming to him. Everything seemed to be "overloaded" for me, causing me to make a difficult decision to break up.
He almost went crazy when he heard that offer, cursed and insulted me. He was jealous of his male colleague, being noisy right at the company, making me not know what to do.
He kept chasing, sending terrorist messages, insulting relatives and friends around him and determined not to abandon me. He also stated frankly that I would not marry anyone else besides him. What should I do to be able to resolve this peaceful and tiring relationship?
