Marriage is not a fairy tale. It is a journey of love, responsibility and also no shortage of hurt. There are pain from the person who loves her most, there are rifts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are times when women find themselves lonely right in the roof of the house...
If you can't avoid the pain, learn to heal. Here are 6 things every woman should keep in mind to keep her heart strong in the challenging journey of marriage.
1. Knowing how to give up when needed - the most difficult thing but also the most courageous
There are things that once passed, you can't come back. Letting go of a person who once loved you is difficult, leaving behind a person you once loved with a heavy heart. But giving up is not a loss, but a time when we know the path of peace. If you have no other choice, choose to leave to find yourself.
2. Never worry about what you are doing
Many women return to work as a bedside replacement after marriage, taking care of their families, taking care of every meal and sleep. They silently sacrifice and sometimes feel inferior because of the things they do not do as big. Don't do that. All values are worth appreciating. Love yourself is the first step to learn to forgive and love others.
3. Any damage will eventually heal
There are pains in the heart, leaving behind scars that seem unforgettable. But time and determination will help everything fade away. No storm will last forever, as long as you are persistent, any wound will heal. The important thing is that you dare to move forward.
4. Love doesn't always have answers
Love someone does not mean to be loved again. Comparing to a heart that does not belong to me only makes me suffer more. There are questions in love that are never answered. So, don't hold on to regret. Learning to accept and pass will be much easier.
5. Optimistic people will encounter good things
Life is very short. Live happily every day. A person who is often depressed will gradually forget what happiness is. Practice smiling, forgive yourself, and give yourself a chance to be happy every day.
6. Live slowly, live for yourself
Don't let yourself get so caught up in the cycle that you lose yourself. Whether you are a wife, a mother, a daughter-in-law... first of all, you are still a person with emotions, with dreams. Take private moments to be yourself.
Marriage is not a destination, but a journey. Sometimes peaceful, sometimes stormy. But if women know how to heal themselves, keep a strong and optimistic heart, then no matter how much pain they go through, they are still resilient women, worthy of love.
