Many women fall into a loop: their husbands cheat - apologize - forgive - and then repeat the offense.
According to psychologist Mai Viet Duc - Nhan Hoa Viet Psychotherapy and Counseling Center, if betrayal occurs many times, the wife needs to stop waiting for the change and start taking action to protect herself.
Set a clear boundary
Forgiveness is only meaningful when the other person knows how to appreciate it. If you have betrayed many times, you need to clearly state the limits: If you continue to commit the offense, you will separate or end the relationship. This is a way to maintain self-respect, not a threat.
Get psychological support
Women often suffer silently because they are ashamed or afraid of judgment. But this only makes you more exhausted. reached out to a psychologist, support group or reliable relative for more spiritual support.
Financial proactiveness
If it depends on the economy, it will be difficult for you to make a decisive decision. Start with small steps: learn new skills, find a job, rebuild a network of friends. Independence will give you more options.
Looking straight at the truth
A true lover will not keep hurting you. Don't justify them with "external circumstances" or "yield". Repeat betrayal is a deliberate choice and each person has the right to choose not to continue to endure.
