Calling the program, Ms. Q (30 years old, 5 years old in marriage) shared about the troubles she is facing in her married life. Ms. Q said that before getting married, she had made it clear to her husband that she did not want to be a daughter-in-law, and did not live with her parents-in-law to have her own space. Although her husband agreed that the two stay alone after getting married, after only 1 year, he changed his mind.
The peak was one day, Ms. Q was shocked when her husband accidentally called a car to move all of the couple's belongings to her biological parents' house without informing her. Ms. Q recalled: Since I got to my husbands house, I always felt like I couldnt control myself. Everything I do, I have to be reserved, have to watch the reaction of my parents-in-law.
Her mother-in-law even wanted to keep the couple's money, saying that she wanted to help manage and be better for the family. I talked to my husband about wanting to go out on a special note, but he gave me an excuse. I said directly: "If you don't agree to move out alone, I will take you." I'm really tired.
Ms. Q's story reminded actress Qiao Trinh of her early days as a daughter-in-law to " sit wherever you want". The actress revealed: I was the same when I first got married, I was too young and when I became a daughter-in-law, I fell into a situation of complete dependence on them. In the past, because they were young, they listened to whatever anyone said. Like a girl from the countryside, I kept thinking, I would sit wherever anyone would, I was very afraid of making a big mistake and almost forgotten to make a living for myself.
From her own difficult "bridehood" experience, actress Kieu Trinh said that she will become a completely different mother-in-law in the future, not going into the " next steps" of traditional mother-in-law - daughter-in-law prejudices. The actress wants to be with her son but will not interfere in their private lives. I want to be with my son in the future, because I am a single mother and will be very lonely when I am old. But absolutely do not interfere in the lives of the couple and children, the actress emphasized.
As a mother with a son, Kieu Trinh has been preparing for the future: "I say whoever becomes my daughter-in-law, that person is extremely happy. Because I have suffered too much as a daughter-in-law. Right now, I have taught my children about this issue, being my wife's cookware assistant, taking care of the housework, ... to help my wife suffer less. That is the complete opposite of what I have experienced.
When MC Phuong Uyen asked about the prospect of a family having a daughter-in-law, the living hours, eating and everything in the house will be chaotic, actress Kieu Trinh frankly said: Because I went through a period of dependence and endurance too much, I thought I had to live a free life. People say "ten people ten minds", each person has a different hour of activity, so we must know how to balance and harmonize to create the happiest space. Don't impose your schedule and force everyone to follow, it will be very stressful and tiring."
