Many girls who are living in love, married women have the opinion that, if they love the right person, a woman will become a child, without having to grow up, but if they meet the wrong person, it is the opposite.
This message has been widely shared since around 2018, and is still popular today to talk about women who are protected and pampered by their boyfriends or husbands.
Perhaps when being loved and cared for, every girl wants to become a "child" to temporarily forget the troubles and pressures of life.
However, this view still receives many conflicting opinions. Many people believe that although women want to be protected and cherished by their other half, they still need to be independent, courageous, and proactive in life and work.
Sharing with Lao Dong reporter, Do Hong Phuong (22 years old, Hanoi) said that this saying always appears in stories about girls who marry rich men and are overpampered. Phuong mentioned the slang used by young people as "princess treatment" to refer to women being pampered and pampered like princesses.
"I see many young people think that just by dressing nicely and wearing fancy dresses, they deserve to be pampered and loved. But I think when women have their own values and identities, they will want to grow up with the person they love instead of "remaining small" to be pampered," Hong Phuong expressed.
In a conversation with Lao Dong reporter, actress Diem Huong shared that although she is loved and cared for by her husband, she just "doesn't grow up" when she is with him.
The actress confided: "When I step out into society, I have to interact with many other people, I have to mature. That's just the way people joke and idealize about love. Everyone's life has so many relationships, not just limited to one man?".
Diem Huong believes that love is something that cannot be grasped, cannot be held, and life is unpredictable. Therefore, she often tells her husband: "Today, you and I still love each other, so let's love each other, let's give each other the best. No one can calculate what will happen in the future."
Many people give examples of famous stars who once had dream love, hot girls who were taken care of by their boyfriends, but one day they broke up because men can change and no love lasts a lifetime.
Since then, sayings like "women are most beautiful when they belong to no one", "only women can bring happiness to each other" have spread and received a lot of response.
Actress Thanh Huong believes that women are most beautiful when they love and are loved: "Just look at women in love, they are beautiful from their sparkling eyes to their smiles.Each person has a different definition of "loving yourself".
Finding a man worthy of love is also a way of loving yourself, I think so."
