When parents have conflicts, children often clearly feel changes in the family atmosphere. Prolonged stress can greatly affect psychology, making children feel insecure.
Talking to reporters, psychologist Hoang Anh - Voice of Therapist Office - said that the most important thing when there are conflicts in the family is that adults need to protect children from their conflicts. Accordingly, parents can note some of the following ways.
Do not let children become "middlemen
Avoid asking children to choose to stand on their father or mother's side, as this can easily put children in a state of stress and guilt.
Limit badmouthing or blaming each other in front of children
Negative words about the other person can hurt children, because for them both parents are very important. So avoid arguing, blaming or badmouthing the other person in front of children.
Respect the role of both in raising children
Even if marital relations encounter difficulties, coordination and sharing in childcare and education still need to be maintained.
Maintain positive communication with children
Parents should listen to their children's emotions, explain family changes in a way that is appropriate for their age so that children understand and are less worried.
Seek family psychological counseling if conflicts persist
Expert support can help members see the problem more clearly and find appropriate solutions.
