Parents are mirrors
A good parenting family starts with words. Wise parents use encouragement instead of criticism, creating a safe environment for children to be confident. Professor Jennifer Smith - Director of the Institute for Child Development, University of Toronto (Canada) - commented: "Children learn how to communicate and manage emotions by observing their parents' behavior. Positive words are the foundation for children's confidence and social ability.
Besides, parents need to control their emotions. A family that is always stable and calm helps children learn how to use reason to solve problems, instead of letting emotions dominate. "Letting go" at the right time is also important: letting children experience, decide and take responsibility themselves is a way to train bravery and independence.
Habits and educational environment
Parents' reading habits also make a difference. Families that read books regularly, turning reading into a ritual, will inspire children, helping them proactively explore knowledge.
Finally, a harmonious, warm marriage is an important stumbling block. When children witness love and respect between parents, they feel safe and learn how to build healthy relationships. According to Professor Smith, "Children growing up in a stable marriage environment develop social skills, empathy and conflict resolution better".
Raising excellent children does not require wealth or high academic ranks, but starts with small daily actions: words, smiles, and patience with children in each experience. Family is the launching pad, sowing seeds for children to become the best version of themselves.
