Tran Thi Thanh is currently opening a baking class in Ho Chi Minh City. Meanwhile, Duc Tam is an office worker, working in the field of information technology. Fate brought them together quite specially: a photo shoot. Tam was looking for a model for a photo shoot at that time, while Thanh was invited by a friend to go with her. The first meeting was not noisy, but enough for both of them to " mark" each other subconsciously.
Thanh admitted that at first she was not very excited to take photos because she was used to the jobload. But Tam's enthusiasm made her change her mind. My first impression was a sense of confidence, Thanh shared. As for Tam, with the eyes of a cameraman, he was quickly attracted by his beauty and the harmony of his homeland - both of whom were from the North to the South to start a business.
At that time, Thanh had just gone through a broken marriage and decided to go to Ho Chi Minh City to start over. It was that situation that made Tam a little concerned, but in the end, what kept him is the positivity and strength of the woman in front of him. "A person who has been unable to do well but still lives optimistically is much more worthy of respect," Tam said.
They quickly became attached and moved in together to save costs and also because they felt they were suitable. In the early years, the couple could not help but have conflicts, mainly due to differences in how to solve problems. Thanh admitted that he was hot-tempered and liked to speak quickly, while Tam chose to stay silent and wait for everything to pass. The serious dialogue after the third argument became a turning point, causing Thanh to determined to change to keep the man by her side.
What surprised the audience was that for the next 10 years, Thanh and Tam hardly argue. However, the prolonged calmness also caused both of them to fall into a state of "bright". They decided to temporarily distance themselves for a while to look back on their relationship. During that time, Thanh met others and realized that he could not live without the trust and peace that Tam brought. When everything is so stable, I understand that it is also a form of happiness, Thanh shared.
She was the one who proactively proposed marriage after more than a decade of association. The wedding took place last summer, concluding an 11-year love journey. Currently, Thanh has a 15-year-old child, living with her sister. The couple is also ready to plan to have a child together in the near future.
On the show, Tam scored absolute points when his wife commented that he was not a patriarchal husband, always supporting his wife even when he knew she could fail. The only thing he hopes Thanh will change is the habit of staying up late and being more concerned about his health.
