In the new episode of the program "A Midday Date", MC Thanh Van introduced Mr. Hoang Tuan and Ms. Nguyen Thi Kim Hue. Both are 28 years old, currently living, studying and working in Ho Chi Minh City.
Mr. Hoang Tuan is from An Giang, currently a doctoral research student, and also doing research work at a university. The male guest admitted that his study schedule is quite busy but he is still willing to arrange a fixed time to build feelings if he meets the right person.
Mr. Tuan plans to become a lecturer in the future. His current research work both creates income and serves his study program and long-term career orientation.
The male graduate student admitted to living responsibly, emotionally, and harmoniously, but sometimes too perfectionist. He once experienced an incomplete love affair due to disagreements between the two sides. Tensions in love affairs once affected his spirit and work, causing him to decide to stop.
Opposite Mr. Tuan is Ms. Kim Hue, from Lam Dong. She is both studying and working, and also studying for some degrees to improve her knowledge and skills.
Ms. Hue said that she lives responsibly, knows how to listen, is eager to learn but is quite introverted and reluctant to communicate with new people. She hopes to find a man who is responsible, disciplined, progressive, not patriarchal, not stingy and knows how to care for his family.
Ms. Hue once dated a friend in the same department for a few months. The two later realized they were not compatible and decided to return to be friends. Therefore, Mr. Tuan and Ms. Hue both had just gone through a relationship.
As soon as the fence opened, Mr. Tuan commented that his girlfriend was cute and had a voice that matched his ideal type. He also praised her neat dressing style.
In a private conversation, Ms. Hue asked many questions about career orientation, marriage plans and the ability to build a family when both are both studying and working. Mr. Tuan said that studying shows a spirit of progress, while work helps maintain economic stability.
The male graduate student also hopes to find someone who knows how to listen and accompany him during the stressful doctoral study period. However, when Mr. Tuan said that he only needs the other person to listen, and the problem will be solved by him, Ms. Hue frankly responded.
According to her, if you have asked for the opinion of a companion, you also need to consider their point of view. If you have decided everything yourself, the conversation is only about sharing information, not about finding solutions together. Mr. Tuan agreed and said that he needs to learn to listen more.
Ms. Hue's family is particularly interested in the marriage views of the young man. Her mother hopes that her future son-in-law will not be patriarchal, not drinking recklessly, not promiscuous, and must know how to love his wife.
When asked about living with parents after marriage, Mr. Tuan said that taking care of parents when they are old is the responsibility of children. However, he does not force his wife to become a daughter-in-law and said that young couples should live separately, regularly visit and care for both parents.
In the match-fixing test, the two revealed some differences. Anh Tuan wanted to get to know each other about three months before meeting his family, while Ms. Hue needed one to two years. The boy wanted three children, while the girl only planned to have one or two children because of financial pressure and responsibility for raising them.
When asked about the "black fund", both disagreed with the couple hiding their own money. Mr. Tuan said that after getting married, his wife could keep the finances and he was willing to give the money to his wife to manage. Ms. Hue did not ask her husband to hand over all income but wanted the two to be transparent about their spending plans.
Assuming there are 100 million VND, Ms. Hue wants to share with both parents. Mr. Tuan agrees if the couple does not have children; and when they become parents, he wants to prioritize the money for their children's education.
At the decisive moment, Mr. Hoang Tuan proactively asked Ms. Kim Hue for a chance to get to know each other. She said that meeting was a predestined relationship and agreed to spend more time with the other person.
Ms. Kim Hue made MC Thanh Van nervous when she was slow to make a choice. In the end, both pressed the heart button, officially leaving the program with the opportunity to develop their relationship.
