Marriage is a connection between two people and also a harmony between two families. When entering together, both need to change, understand and nurture together to build a sustainable home. However, to maintain and develop happiness in married life, men need to be aware and avoid mistakes that can harm their partner. Here are the things men should not do after marriage, according to Onlymyhealth:
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Living with others requires you to know how to share and put the common interest above individuals. Elegrancy can manifest itself by spending too much time on friends, personal interests and forgetting your partner. Grief makes your wife feel abandoned, uncared for, and disrespected.
Remember that marriage is a companionship of two people, not a competition for priority. Always put family happiness first and build a common life together.
Mental, physical or words abuse
Any form of abuse is unacceptable in marriage. When you are single, disrespectful words or actions may not be noticed, but when they are married, they will deeply hurt their partner. Abuse not only destroys feelings but can also break down families.
If you find yourself doing negative things, take the initiative to seek help from experts to change. Don't let violence become a path to irreparable loss.
Lying
Trust is the foundation of all relationships, especially in marriage. Hiding or lying about small things like going, doing something or big things will gradually erode that trust. Lying not only hurts your wife but also causes you to lose the other person's respect. Be honest in everything, because sincerity is the way to maintain a long-term and lasting relationship.
Lack of communication
Communication is the way to a successful marriage. If you carry old, unpositive habits, are afraid to share or do not listen to your wife, the gap between the two will increase. Lack of communication causes misunderstandings, doubts and insecurities, easily leading to failed marriages.
Learn to listen, share frankly and solve problems together. A happy marriage is when both feel understood and accompanied.
Note
Marriage is not a place to express personal ego but an understanding, sharing and mutual development. Avoiding selfishness, abuse, lying and keeping communication flowing are key factors for men to maintain and build family happiness.
