1. hurtful words
This is a way to hurt others through words such as: cursing, insulting, criticizing, teasing, blaming, threatening.
These words can easily make listeners feel heartbroken, lose confidence, be degraded or ashamed.
2. makes others doubt themselves
This is an act that makes others feel wrong, misunderstand or overreact.
For example, saying, "What's wrong with getting angry? , "I imagined it", "That story is not real",... These statements make listeners gradually lose faith in their own emotions and thoughts.
3. Control others
A person who regularly scolds, gives orders, forces others to do as they want, watches their phones, does not allow contact with friends... is a manifestation of controlling behavior. This makes people under control always feel suffocated and detained.
4. policy of remaining silent, avoiding
When there is conflict or tension, instead of talking to resolve it, some people choose to remain silent for a long time, showing a cold, distant attitude. This makes the other person feel abandoned and un listened to.
5. Mockery and mockery under the guise of "having fun"
Many people say that they are touching others but denied that "it's just a joke".
Although it is said humorously, if repeated often, it will make the person being teased feel insulted or disregarded.
6. Hurting the spirit of others
This is a behavior that makes others feel worthless, always tormented and pressured.
For example: often comparing, defaming, repeating old mistakes, making others feel insecure, worried, scared, etc.
7. Lowering prices, losing prestige in front of others
For example, criticizing, laughing or selling off others in crowded places, especially at work or in the family. This action made the person being mentioned feel ashamed, lose face, lose confidence.
8. Frequent blaming or disregard
In communication, if a person always blames others or shows a contemptuous and taken-out attitude, it will seriously hurt the other person's self-respect. Over time, the relationship will become cold and distant.
