Communication is a core factor that helps maintain closeness, understanding and problem-solving in relationships, especially love and marriage. Here are simple but very important communication skills to build a lasting relationship, according to Marriage.
Focus on listening to others
When chatting, stop using your phone, TV or other electronic device to show that you are truly interested. Look into the other person's eyes, nod or respond gently to let them know you are paying attention.
Don't interrupt when others are talking
When the other person is sharing, don't interrupt. Let them say all their opinions before you respond. This shows that you respect the other person and help the conversation become more positive.
Choose a suitable place to talk
If there is something important to discuss, choose a quiet and private place. Avoid talking in crowded, noisy places or making one of you feel uncomfortable.
Prioritize face-to-face chats
If possible, talk directly instead of via text message. When meeting, you can easily understand the other person's feelings through facial features, voice and attitude, thereby reducing misunderstandings.
Honesty in communication
honesty is important to build trust. Sharing your thoughts, feelings or difficulties sincerely. If you are wrong, admit it and apologize.
Sharing even the smallest things
You don't have to wait until there is a big deal to talk to each other. Sharing simple things like a working day, an interesting story or emotions during the day helps two people get closer.
Calm down before talking about things that dis satisfy you
If something is uncomfortable for you, take some time to think before saying it. This helps you avoid angry reactions and can choose the most appropriate way to speak.
Maintain intimacy through simple actions
Communication is not only through words but also through actions such as holding hands, holding lightly or touching the shoulders. These simple actions help maintain cohesion and show concern.
Maintain a positive atmosphere when chatting
Don't let communication in the relationship be all about responsibility or controversy. Sharing joy regularly, talking about positive things or future plans together. This helps both maintain excitement and a sense of safety together.
